Pune, Punekar & Puneri!

P.I: All the views below are in good humor and needn’t be taken seriously unless you’re too adamant and a jackass!

2 years of crazy times. Absolutely mental. That’s how I’ll remember Pune as. It taught me a lot. If experience is supposed to be your greatest teacher. This was the mother of all experiences.

Well, to start with Pune is so annoying at times that even though you’re in a good mood it’ll set up situations such that it’ll literally gate-crash into your mind and upset your perfect plan. In fact, it was so frequent that even though when we used to plan going on a trip either home or outstation (which was planned after considering every tiny bit of nonsense that might get in the way) we were all the time in a dilemma is this happening for real? Such is the aura of the place.

Not being negative, but that’s how I learnt the first lesson that everything will not go according to as you’ve planned all the times (hereby, most of the times) so you either need to have a backup plan ready with whatever resources you have or enjoy your sweet spot of solitude. It gets you more flexible and open to life as it keeps throwing at you surprises that too which are size of cannons. You understand and nurture the smaller, sillier, often under rated joys! Eating up the hail off the ground when a storm hits is probably too bizarre, but is actually more fun when you do it (Do try). Similarly, budgeting your weekly expenses and finding out places which offer you chai on tapri instead of going for fancy outlets like CCD and Starbucks. Parathas and Momos from the guy on your lane sounds better than Delhi Darbar and Mainland China. Getting economical not only helps you going light on your pockets, but it also helps you explore the place more and learn a thing or two from your fellow co-foodie’s which you didn’t know (it is either novel or bullshit, needn’t necessarily be true).

For people who are more of introvert like me, well, life is more miserable with so many random strangers. I wonder how people open up so soon and start talking all about their life to a person you just met yesterday (except when you’re drunk). But then life gets difficult the more you isolate yourself, so the only way out is embrace it, slowly and steadily because ignorance is crap. It’s like you close your eyes from reality, which doesn’t mean the weirdo can’t see you. It’s just that you’re acting like a blind patient which gets scarier further when you open your eyes because there is every possibility that the person might pounce on you. Of course some people are crazy and Punekars are high on that list. But it’s in their genes to be over-inquisitive and unreasonably adamant. That has been from time immemorial. Hence, the much famed Puneri paati and Puneri behaviour exists. High time they get it patented. It’s way too damn hilarious and stupid. True... they are hell thrifty. Before anyone says whats wrong? It’s the Indian birth right. Let me clear, this species is a bit more than an average Indian. Hence the thriftiness is also more than you can speculate. Its different. Obviously, since it considers itself different from everyone, every region, and every system it has some of its unique characteristics. They stay in their own little world on a planet called Pune. The way every Punekar boasts about Pune and everything related to it is phenomenal. Past, present and also future of this place everything is worth a voluminous description and exaggeration by a localite to outsider. Even though Pune is dead polluted, so much that you cannot identify a girl even when she comes close and says hi to you (Thanks to the ninja sort of clothing around their face which reveals only eyes, again, if not covered by glares) a Punekar will always have reasons to celebrate. They say we’ve taught the world to develop a sense of fashion by that and also we’re safeguarding our daughters and sisters from your devil eyes. Wow! You didn’t see that coming. Did you?

The pohe, misal-pav, thali pith make up the trademark Puneri snacks and the mastani which is a combination of falooda with ice-cream. But dare you say it an ice-cream and you get dirty looks from the outlet owner. They’ve literally put boards saying it’s not an ice-cream and don’t call it so. Also, the guy behind the counter is always in a rush for you to make a choice. He’ll keep yelling at you to order fast and if you take time he’ll get annoyed and probably give u torn or soiled notes (always check for your currency). The best experience of all this factors is felt at Chitale bandhu which is almost a synonymous word to Pune’s eatery scenario.

Next thing would be a debate. Remember never argue with a Punekar. You’ll lose hands down. Even if it’s irrational, you’ll always be beaten brutally (verbally I mean). Views might be offensive but you’ll be hugged the next day by words like “bhava, bas kaay aata? Tu bolla te ek number’ch hota pan…” (Brother, c’mon. whatever you said yesterday was fantastic but…).  They never quit. The ‘but’ always exits till you decide to let it go for the sake of your own peace and also for the other person’s constant chattering jaws! Yeah,an average Punekar says words/phrases like ek number, bhari, bhava, kadak, tuch to, raada etc. around several hundred times in his conversation.

Even though people are a bit absurd, they’ll touch your lives in a way of their own. They make you so mad and amused all the times that they overpower the goodness in them. Whatever and however they are, they make you miss them for all the pain in the ass they’ve been. Certainly, they hold a pathetically weird place in your heart and it’s funny that you can’t put it down in words.  

So for all the folks who were a part of this experience directly or indirectly - Thanks a lot. I owe you a misal pav. To sum it up for all the mental times and equally retard people: Lai bhari! Houch de kharch...

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